The Pursuit of Happiness

  I am deeply saddened by the recent turn of events, pertaining especially to the death of one of the world’s beloved people- Robin Williams.  As a child of the nineties, I was exposed to some of the great works he has done on screen, some of which consist of Jumanji, Aladdin, and Hook.  To this day, I remember a younger me watching Mrs. Doubtfire for the first time during a class party in the fourth grade.  I remember laughing as he portrayed the feminine disguise and the numerous and I remember being captivated when the vulnerability showed through his (male) character.  In general, Robin Williams made the world a happier place.

But this is not an article about him or his unfortunate death.

I have always been intrigued by the insubstantial amount of happiness within successful people.  To think that they are blessed with the talents, the charms, or the financial stability (or all three), we would assume that they would be happy.  We would assume that they couldn’t possibly ask for more because they have virtually everything.  But assumption is superficial, and clearly fame and wealth are not the vehicles to happiness.

Of course, we know this already.  Some people are just given such abilities to flourish financially.  Nonetheless, the question remains unanswered: why are people still unhappy? Is it because they are ungrateful?  Is it because they have forgotten to acknowledge these talents as blessings? These are two possible answers, and are not specifically about Robin’s passing, but I guess this is something to reflect upon.

Don’t stop counting your blessings.

Don’t forget to express gratitude each day.

With much love,

Alyssa

 

Robin Williams, you have been an inspiration and a source of joy to the many lives you touched with your talents.

May you rest in peace.

 

 

Oh, the Places …

Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

by Dr. Seuss

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.

You’ll look up and down streets. Look ’em over with care.
About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.”
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you’re too smart to go down any not-so-good street.

And you may not find any
you’ll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you’ll head straight out of town.

It’s opener there
in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainy
and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen,
don’t worry. Don’t stew.
Just go right along.
You’ll start happening too.

OH!
THE PLACES YOU’LL GO!

You’ll be on your way up!
You’ll be seeing great sights!
You’ll join the high fliers
who soar to high heights.

You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed.
You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you’ll be the best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don’t
Because, sometimes, you won’t.

I’m sorry to say so
but, sadly, it’s true
and Hang-ups
can happen to you.

You can get all hung up
in a prickle-ly perch.
And your gang will fly on.
You’ll be left in a Lurch.

You’ll come down from the Lurch
with an unpleasant bump.
And the chances are, then,
that you’ll be in a Slump.

And when you’re in a Slump,
you’re not in for much fun.
Un-slumping yourself
is not easily done.

You will come to a place where the streets are not marked.
Some windows are lighted. But mostly they’re darked.
A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin!
Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in?
How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And IF you go in, should you turn left or right…
or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite?
Or go around back and sneak in from behind?
Simple it’s not, I’m afraid you will find,
for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.

You can get so confused
that you’ll start in to race
down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace
and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,
headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place…

…for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
or a bus to come, or a plane to go
or the mail to come, or the rain to go
or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow
or waiting around for a Yes or a No
or waiting for their hair to grow.
Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite
or waiting for wind to fly a kite
or waiting around for Friday night
or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting.

NO!
That’s not for you!

Somehow you’ll escape
all that waiting and staying.
You’ll find the bright places
where Boom Bands are playing.

With banner flip-flapping,
once more you’ll ride high!
Ready for anything under the sky.
Ready because you’re that kind of a guy!

Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done!
There are points to be scored. there are games to be won.
And the magical things you can do with that ball
will make you the winning-est winner of all.
Fame! You’ll be famous as famous can be,
with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don’t.
Because, sometimes, they won’t.

I’m afraid that some times
you’ll play lonely games too.
Games you can’t win
’cause you’ll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not,
Alone will be something
you’ll be quite a lot.

And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance
you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants.
There are some, down the road between hither and yon,
that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.

But on you will go
though the weather be foul
On you will go
though your enemies prowl
On you will go
though the Hakken-Kraks howl
Onward up many
a frightening creek,
though your arms may get sore
and your sneakers may leak.

On and on you will hike
and I know you’ll hike far
and face up to your problems
whatever they are.

You’ll get mixed up, of course,
as you already know.
You’ll get mixed up
with many strange birds as you go.
So be sure when you step.
Step with care and great tact
and remember that Life’s
a Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.)

KID, YOU’LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!

So…
be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
or Mordecai Ali Van Allen O’Shea,
you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!

Young Superstars in the Making- Alyssa Gutierrez

Young Superstars in the Making- Alyssa Gutierrez

A lovely post from about a month ago. Read about this roller coaster journey that is musicianship (and a video of me singing backstage for Jeff Beck and Narada Michael Walden during their visit to Vancouverin 2012)!

Happy Valentine’s Day, world! In the spirit of the occasion, here’s an entry by yours truly, inspired by the love within the wonderful cast of Right Here, Write Now!

Right Here, Write Now! the Musical

“Can you believe how long it’s been?”

This phrase has become one of the most retold inside jokes within this musical’s high-spirited cast, not only because it’s part of one of the numbers, but also because it’s almost time.  It’s almost showtime, and it’s almost time to say goodbye.  This thought keeps recurring over and over in my mind as rehearsals move along, committing to memory the different moments this lively and open-handed group of people had shared within the past eight months.  Who would have thought the once individuals who had auditioned for a show to help the unfortunate would become a family?  I certainly did not.  To be honest, I never thought I would connect to these people.  If in my everyday life, saying hi to an acquaintance is already difficult for me, how much more is communicating with a cast filled with complete strangers? (For lack of…

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